When we give truly from the heart we ask for nothing in return, If we give trust freely and do not request faith in return… then our personal boundaries are never breached and our expectations are not binding ones soul and energy to another by the chains of a promise you are holding over them.. Look deeply and you will see that the direction of energy flows both ways within this bondage of chains..and limited to the conduit in which it flows.. love within your own heart energies cannot flow as one within unity until the ties have been severed…Live freely, love unconditionally.. Namaste, Whitefeather